It has been over two months since I left my full time job…
and it was the best decision I ever made.
It took me over 2.5 years to realize that even in a down economy, I did not deserve to be in a toxic work environment where yelling, cursing and belittling was commonplace. I dealt with it, tried to stay positive, reminded myself to toughen up and be thankful that I even had a job in this time of high unemployment, and I even started this blog to bring me happiness.
Being in Hawaii this past May and experiencing the beauty of the island and warmth of the people helped renew my spirit and awaken my soul. After returning from Hawaii, I knew it was time for a positive change, and my husband lovingly gave me his blessing to put the plan in motion. After 3 more months, I finally gave myself permission to be happy, take a leap of faith and move on to greener pastures.
Today, I am a freelancer and finally feel like myself again. Working for myself is very challenging, but it’s soooo worth it! I may not make as much as I used to or have all the benefits of a full time job, but I’m happier than I’ve been in a very long time…and you can’t put a price on that!
Have you ever taken a leap of faith to be happy?
Filling my passport with family, travel and bliss 
I’m in the same boat. I want to quit pretty badly but I’m scared for many reasons. We’ll see what happens. Your story is inspiring!
Tobi, sending prayers that you’ll be able to leave your job soon! For me, I was scared to leave the stability of a steady income in a tough economy. I applied to other jobs, but the competition was so fierce that I had no other choice but to stick with my toxic job…until I couldn’t stick with it any longer! There’s only so much negativity a soul can take. Sending positive vibes & hugs your way! 🙂
Right there with you! My husband and I both quit our jobs 2 years ago and moved to Ecuador. It was very difficult for my husband. Even though he detested his job, it was hard to give up the steady paycheck and benefits. But, once he took that leap of faith he’s been a happier man!
Wendy, that is SO awesome! Talk about leap of faith! I’m glad to hear that your husband is happier. There’s nothing like leaving a job you detest! What made you decide on Ecuador? Moving abroad is something I would love to do one day, but until then, I will have to live vicariously through you 😉
Ecuador was our top choice due to cost of living (much easier to live off of freelance wages here!), climate, and culture. Plus, it’s a great jumping off point for vising other Latin American countries.
Good luck on your journey towards expatriation! If it’s truly something you want to do, you can make it happen!
I’m a big believer in being happy at the workplace. You’re there for 8+ hours everyday so there is no point in being miserable. I’m not sure if my husband agrees with this notion so it could unfortunately cause an issue down the road but for now, I’m pretty content in my job so I guess it’s not worth discussing 🙂 I’m glad you were able to take a step of faith to quit!
Thanks Di! I’m glad to hear you’re content in your job. I’ve learned that for me, when it comes down to it, a pleasant environment really is everything!